Jewish Terminology Glossary

Jewish Terminology Glossary

As members of the Jewish community, we understand the unique needs that arise during the loss of a loved one. We work closely with each family to honor tradition while providing guidance rooted in professional experience. Our goal is to help you create a meaningful and respectful tribute.

Jewish Funeral Rituals & Customs

A Jewish funeral reflects the deep traditions of our faith. If you are planning services for a loved one, you may have specific customs and religious practices you wish to follow. We understand these traditions and are here to support you with knowledge, care, and professionalism at every step.

Tearing of Cloth or Keriah

Jewish tradition instructs mourners to tear their clothing as a sign of grief. This practice is called keriah. It is usually observed by immediate family members. In modern times, some choose to wear a black ribbon or pin on their clothing, which is torn in place of the garment.

Burial

A Jewish funeral is held as soon as possible after death. Cremation is traditionally not practiced. Burial affirms the value of each individual, and even a damaged Torah is buried rather than destroyed. The body is considered sacred and must be treated with dignity. Burning the body is seen as disrespectful to the gift of life.

Most Jews are buried in a simple pine casket and wrapped in a plain white shroud, known as a tachrichim. This tradition reflects the belief that all individuals should be treated equally in death, regardless of wealth or status.

At the end of the funeral, it is customary for mourners to take part in the burial. The family begins by placing earth into the grave, followed by close friends. The first scoop of soil is taken using the back of the shovel to show sorrow in performing the task. The next three scoops are taken normally. Afterward, the shovel is placed into the earth for the next person to continue the ritual.

Hand-Washing

After a funeral or a visit to the cemetery, it is customary to wash your hands. This act serves as a symbol of spiritual cleansing and a reminder to return to life without carrying the weight of death and grief.

Flowers & Stones

Flowers are not typically used at Jewish funerals and should not be brought to the cemetery or given to the grieving family. Instead, it is customary to place small stones on the grave as a sign of respect and remembrance. This tradition reflects the belief that life is sacred, and the life of a flower should not be taken for mourning.

To offer condolences to a Jewish family, consider bringing food or a thoughtful gift. It is also common to make a charitable donation in honor of the deceased to a cause they valued.

Shiva Or Sitting Shiva

Shiva is a period of mourning that allows close relatives and loved ones to reflect and grieve. Many Jews observe shiva for seven days after a loss and remain at home during this time. It is customary for friends and extended family to bring food to the home, helping ensure the mourners are cared for as they focus on their grief.